Jogy Susan Varghese

I feel women empowerment is very much necessary for the development of country as well as for the family. Our country is represented by women in different major roles. It should be considered as a fact for proud instead considering it in negative way. Both women and men have to understand the real need and power of ‘Women Empowerment’ . Society is lagging in the knowledge of the objective behind it. Real goal of women empowerment aims at giving opportunities to women and bringing them up. This has led to a successful growth in different areas leading from family to society and towards the growth of country. Where women empowerment leads to divorce?   This is where we need to have a real thought on. Discussions with few people conclude in two facts;   ego and dominate . The real reason related with empowerment which leads to divorce are the above mentioned nature of human being and not empowerment of women.  Education brings awareness to women a...

Let me take this opportunity to THANK LORD for taking care of me throughout my last year. Every day of last year, indeed every minute of every day, is filled with God's blessings; throughout the year HE guard me in his safe hands. Thank You GOD for giving me another year to live to celebrate. Let me take this opportunity to THANK MY PARENTS for their love, care and support they have given to me throughout. Also let me take this opportunity to point each one of you, my relatives and friends for all the love and care you have shown to me. And I pray that you all will always guide me, support me and help me to be a better person every day. About Me Hobbies                     :  Singing and Dancing, Make Up Best pals                    :  Chichu and Bahba Favori...

How we both met and admit each other? This is a question i have been answered to my friends and relatives so many times. But not sure whether i have given a genuine answer to anybody. Because the answer is even not clear to me. This is purely NOT LOVE IN FIRST SIGHT . I do believe in it but ours was not so. I do remember the day we met first. There is nothing unusual happened like a thunder, rain as seen in movies ;). It was a common meeting; He came to help us in our college project. My first thought " Daivama ethina kondu valla project nadakumo ?". First time true confession from my side. He told in his mind (we were a group of 4 girls) " Eh penpillaruda kootatha anallo njan padipikendathu. Enikku pani akumo? "  (He told me when once I asked. Hope it was his right confession. Ofcourse added statement " Jeevithakalam muzhuvan ayittu pani akum ennu vicharichilla ;)" ). How this first meeting turned to what we are now is the big question. He was not a p...

Which offer a women accept from a man - as a Girl Friend or a Wife? Personally i choose the first option - a "Girl Friend" role. I asked this question to most of my friends and ofcourse 82% voted for girl friend, 10% voted for wife and 8% voted 'we hate them'. Let me exclude the 8% and come back to other portion. Most surprising part of 82% is; they all are holding the designation as WIFE for more than 10 years. Being a wife why we choose 'Girl Friend'? That is the reason why i thought of writing this in my blog. When marriage brings more bond and security; why everyone opt for being a lover? Lot of limitations are there to meet a lover but there is no limitations to meet your husband. Any time, any where you can be with your husband but not with your lover. Still why BOY FRIEND get more attention than a HUSBAND. Few social factors like finance, responsibility, stability etc will be highlighted when you discuss about the issue with other. But is this true? Al...

How to get satisfaction in life? A big question throughout my life. Life is not a fairytale. Never except someone will come in life to fulfill all your dreams. It is a worthless hope and waste of time. If it happens that is a great thing. But if it doesn't happen that is normal. There is nothing much to worry about that. Try to achieve your dreams by hard work and dedication.You may WIN or FAIL. When you succeed in your dream, you will fly to the peak of happiness and satisfaction.  If it is a failure instead of regretting about it; try to appreciate your effort.  That is how you can be a complete satisfied person in life !!! “Being a satisfied person in life is more wealthier than being a billionaire”  

Throughout my life is unfair. But it taught me how to face the endless challenges without failing. When everyone complains "Why you don't have this?" or "Why you are not like this?"; I don't regret. Because my vision and their vision towards my life is entirely different. I am happy as what I am !!!! We cannot make changes in others perspective but we can do by taking on a wider view of things. I love to laugh in life and laugh like there is no tomorrow.

A person with optimistic and pessimistic attitude towards life. Always try to vision the outcome in both extreme cases. Happy ending occurs only if there were some sad moments in between. I am a person who knows how to maintain both situation equally and keep moving to explore the next moment of life.