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Empowered Women and Increasing Divorce Rates – Related?



I feel women empowerment is very much necessary for the development of country as well as for the family. Our country is represented by women in different major roles. It should be considered as a fact for proud instead considering it in negative way. Both women and men have to understand the real need and power of ‘Women Empowerment’. Society is lagging in the knowledge of the objective behind it. Real goal of women empowerment aims at giving opportunities to women and bringing them up. This has led to a successful growth in different areas leading from family to society and towards the growth of country.

Where women empowerment leads to divorce?  This is where we need to have a real thought on. Discussions with few people conclude in two facts; ego and dominate. The real reason related with empowerment which leads to divorce are the above mentioned nature of human being and not empowerment of women.  Education brings awareness to women about her rights and her demands for equality in position. Women started demanding their needs and want their needs met. If they are providing respect and support, it won’t lead to divorce. And I think they deserve it. Women empowerment has a role to play in divorce, but in an optimistic way

Egoistic man cannot accept the growth of his wife. He misbehaves with his wife in different way and leads to problems in their marriage life. Today’s women tolerate things to an extent. When she feels things are getting beyond her tolerance, she just goes for divorce. This is the same when considering the fact dominates. Never be dominating to each other. Also women should not consider her empowerment for satisfy their egoistic aspirations. Some women take the advantage of the right to equality given to them and misuse the freedom which leads to divorce.

How it can be transformed? We can transform this issue since both are human nature. Change this human attitude by diverting the point of vision towards the fact.

Men have to realize the real need of women to be educated. He has to realize the importance of different women in his life: a mother, a friend, a wife or a daughter. If any of the mentioned roles is important for a man; he has to accept the truth every single woman has to once go through that role. So they are precious and we have to give equal importance to them and their growth is our need. Women empowerment makes women more independent and financial sound. It should be considered in the positive aspects of life. Men have to accept the real life situation when he is down she can hold the family up. Also women must realize her main role as caring mother, wife, daughter etc. Her priority should not be changed. Woman has the ability to take care of her professional as well as family equally balanced.

Understand the equal importance and priorities and together represent a happy family life.



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