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Apart OR Depart – Not a complete farewell.

Dedicated To My Aunt
Molly mamma who 
was called to her eternal rest on 

June 5th 2013 at 11:15 PM
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We get chances to meet lot strange people in our day to day living. And in a short span of time some of them will become good friends who start living with us and some vanish with or without leaving some marks in our life.  I wish to think of the people who left from us by leaving behind some marks to remind them lifelong.

"Living miles away from you still I can hear the voice of your heart". I am not sure whether anyone else holds the copyright for this quote. But for me it is very special and personal. This is the [useless] promise given by a 16 year old boy to a 15 year old girl 16 years back. I still remember the quote with the depth of the wordings, style of writing, beauty of the page it is written and more over the person who wrote for me. Writing autographs was very touchy during our school- college farewell days. Not sure whether the concept still exists in today's generation.  But I am sure for those who have one really loves going through the writing sometimes which brings some good old memories back.  

How it is connected to my topic I will explain. As I mentioned earlier those lines were written in my autograph by one of my classmate 16 years back. But the quote got strong vibrancies towards me throughout my life. It must be an immature infatuation, love or fascination made him to write it, but the touch of it was very high. Even though the physical presence of the people involved got apart; something is left behind which cannot be described or explained.  I don’t know whether the person in the other end remember or feel it the same way. This is how some people leave footprints in our life as well we leave footprints in others life. This is just one instance of life where the characters got apart but the vibration of their relation once had still lives. 

Another instance of life is we have some people departed from our life permanently. But the footprints they left with us got a great depth which makes us feel they are always with us.  I have 3 people in my life so but I still move forward in life with the support or path they showed when they were physically with me. I will avoid explaining the attachment of 2 people from the list that is related to me by family bond as I don’t have words to explain the loose and the same time their presence. They are the ones with me throughout which I can feel than the others who physically have presence near me.

The other person is my friend – JALPA. I knew her only for 6 months. But in that short span of time she touched my life with lot of changes.  Most of the times when I need a push myself I think of her. She got a magical wand   which makes you feel happy even though you are in a deep trouble. She taught me how to make malai kofta and masala chai – both are my favorites which I used to enjoy at home when I am alone. Not born and brought up together or from a same place; met in life’s journey but departed from me in a short span of time that too unexpectedly. The footprint she left in my life is very touchy and lovely. Miss her so much but she is the one I feel who is with me as a friend when I am totally down or depressed.

Above are just 2 characters of my life who holds a lot to me not by physical presence but by their one time commitment towards me. There are many people we meet in our day to day life where some incidentally show up in our way and vanish leaving a bond lives for a life time. Even we must be a part of someone life regardless of our knowledge.  As marriages are said to happen in heaven I believe this relations are also made in heaven.  Whether it is an apart or depart; is it a full farewell? NO. It is just another way of saying  “Bye Bye … See you soon”.  Whenever we need them they come in front of us irrespective of the physical distance we hold. And they are the part of us. They always live within us.

Though miles may lie between us we are never far apart, for friendship doesn't count miles it's measured by the heart. ~ Rozina Hasham

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