Jogy Susan Varghese

How we both met and admit each other? This is a question i have been answered to my friends and relatives so many times. But not sure whether i have given a genuine answer to anybody. Because the answer is even not clear to me. This is purely NOT LOVE IN FIRST SIGHT . I do believe in it but ours was not so. I do remember the day we met first. There is nothing unusual happened like a thunder, rain as seen in movies ;). It was a common meeting; He came to help us in our college project. My first thought " Daivama ethina kondu valla project nadakumo ?". First time true confession from my side. He told in his mind (we were a group of 4 girls) " Eh penpillaruda kootatha anallo njan padipikendathu. Enikku pani akumo? "  (He told me when once I asked. Hope it was his right confession. Ofcourse added statement " Jeevithakalam muzhuvan ayittu pani akum ennu vicharichilla ;)" ). How this first meeting turned to what we are now is the big question. He was not a p

Which offer a women accept from a man - as a Girl Friend or a Wife? Personally i choose the first option - a "Girl Friend" role. I asked this question to most of my friends and ofcourse 82% voted for girl friend, 10% voted for wife and 8% voted 'we hate them'. Let me exclude the 8% and come back to other portion. Most surprising part of 82% is; they all are holding the designation as WIFE for more than 10 years. Being a wife why we choose 'Girl Friend'? That is the reason why i thought of writing this in my blog. When marriage brings more bond and security; why everyone opt for being a lover? Lot of limitations are there to meet a lover but there is no limitations to meet your husband. Any time, any where you can be with your husband but not with your lover. Still why BOY FRIEND get more attention than a HUSBAND. Few social factors like finance, responsibility, stability etc will be highlighted when you discuss about the issue with other. But is this true? Al

How to get satisfaction in life? A big question throughout my life. Life is not a fairytale. Never except someone will come in life to fulfill all your dreams. It is a worthless hope and waste of time. If it happens that is a great thing. But if it doesn't happen that is normal. There is nothing much to worry about that. Try to achieve your dreams by hard work and dedication.You may WIN or FAIL. When you succeed in your dream, you will fly to the peak of happiness and satisfaction.  If it is a failure instead of regretting about it; try to appreciate your effort.  That is how you can be a complete satisfied person in life !!! “Being a satisfied person in life is more wealthier than being a billionaire”  

Throughout my life is unfair. But it taught me how to face the endless challenges without failing. When everyone complains "Why you don't have this?" or "Why you are not like this?"; I don't regret. Because my vision and their vision towards my life is entirely different. I am happy as what I am !!!! We cannot make changes in others perspective but we can do by taking on a wider view of things. I love to laugh in life and laugh like there is no tomorrow.